Category: Stress
By Megan Schrantz, Ed.D., LPCC
Lindner Center of Hope Outpatient and Residential Therapist
Many children and adolescents undergo difficult life experiences during their growing up years. Children may encounter a variety of events that are stressful to varying degrees, such as the divorce or separation of parents or the death of a beloved relative or friend. Many of these events would be considered as within the realm of human experience. Yet the nature of the event or events, as well as the unique characteristics of the child, may contribute to a posttraumatic stress response.
A traumatic event involves personal actual or threatened death or threat to life or bodily integrity, or witnessing an event that involves the death, injury, or threat to the physical integrity of another person. Traumatic events are often distinguished as sudden, unexpected, and shocking. Some examples of traumatic events include physical or sexual abuse; witnessing or being the direct victim of domestic, community, or school violence; severe motor vehicle or other accidents; life-threatening illnesses; natural and human-made disasters; the sudden death of a parent, sibling, or peer; and exposure to war or terrorism. The person’s response to such an event is one of intense fear, helplessness, or horror. It is important to note that chronic adverse experiences may detrimentally impact children similar to an acute adverse event. These ongoing events may be underrated or overlooked. Such experiences may include frequent conflict in the home, the various impacts of poverty on daily life, or living in an unsafe neighborhood, just to name a few.
Many people develop characteristic symptoms following exposure to a traumatic event. Common symptoms include fear, depression, anger, anxiety, and difficulty dealing with stress. In children, such an emotional response often presents itself as disorganized or agitated behavior. Children may spontaneously act out their emotions and perceptions of traumatic events through play. Typically, those with posttraumatic stress experience persistent thoughts and memories associated with the event(s), and subsequently attempt to avoid people and situations that are reminders of what happened. They may perceive themselves and others in a negative light or have difficulty trusting others.
A child’s response to a traumatic event will be influenced by his or her age and developmental level. The impact of an identical stressful event may vary from child to child depending on a child’s inherent resiliency and coping skills as well as external sources of family, emotional, and social support. The difference in responses from child to child also occurs because children have unique ways of understanding and making meaning of traumatic events.
The good news is that children and adolescents often respond well to psychotherapy specific to posttraumatic stress. One such evidenced-based intervention is Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Components of trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy include:
1) psychoeducation for both children and parents;
2) relaxation/stress reduction;
3) emotional expression and modulation;
4) cognitive coping and skills training;
5) creation of the trauma narrative (story);
6) cognitive processing of the trauma narrative; and
7) looking to the future: safety planning and life goals.
One of the main objectives of TF-CBT is not only for a child to tell their story but to challenge and change their negative thoughts and self-beliefs about it. Importantly, the therapist assists the parent(s) or other adult to bear witness to the child’s narrative, with strength and compassion.
Play therapy utilizes play activities to help children who have experienced trauma process their emotions and experiences in a safe and controlled environment, allowing them to express their experiences through toys, art, and role-playing. Play therapy leverages a child’s natural inclination to play to access and process traumatic experiences in a way that aligns with their developmental stage. Through play, children can symbolically represent their trauma using toys and activities, which can be easier than verbalizing complex emotions. A play therapist observes the child’s play patterns and uses therapeutic interventions to help them understand and manage their emotions, develop coping strategies, and build resilience.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a treatment modality used in therapy to reduce posttraumatic stress in children and adolescents. The primary goal of EMDR is to help a person transform their negative beliefs about themselves as related to their adverse experiences. Traumatic experiences can strongly impact a person’s sense of safety and control; additionally, such experiences often leave one feeling inadequate, irreparably damaged or responsible about what happened. The aim of EMDR is thus to reprocess irrational and negative thoughts, beliefs, and emotions related to the adverse event(s), as well as the associated negative physiological sensations.
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